My name is Casey Wiegand, I am a freelance artist, wife and mama.
expect pieces of my perspective on life, faith, kids, marriage, with touches of art,
creative inspiration, projects and things I love along the way. I have two little ones
in the hopes of lots more and am married to the love of my life :).
Aiden is a major snuggle bug. I don't know if it's because for the past (almost) 2 years I have snuggled him constantly or if it was already in his nature but he loves to be held, snuggled, tickled, hugged, kissed...all things wonderful.
Some nights he is extra extra loving.
Like tonight.
I went in to put him to bed and both arms instantly wrapped tight around my neck, holding on for dear life and then came the kisses! Countless kisses all over my cheeks.
Then came my tears.
The hot tears streaming down my cheeks. Oh the love. Sometimes I just can't squeeze tight enough. I stayed in there till he fell asleep and he never let go.
I have an incredibly sensitive spirit. It's both a strength and a curse. I tend to get my heart broken often.
Then I started to think....if something happened to me, could others love my babies the way I do?
Would they know?
Would they know the big things like schedules. What Aiden will and won't eat. His favorite toys, his own little language. His bath routine. His favorite shows & songs to dance to. What about Ainsleigh? when she eats, the noises she makes when she is tired vs hungry. What makes her laugh.
Then I think...well what about the little things.
Would they know that when Aiden pulls your eye to his cheek he wants butterfly kisses.
Or that when he runs to the kitchen rug & sits down, he is ready for a pretend picnic.
The countless things I know about them.
What about the nights. Would they get up with him 10 times each night and hold him till he slips into slumber.
Please say yes.
It actually makes me weep.
There is a great hope in Jesus. He loves my babies more than I ever could imagine.
More than me. Impossible to imagine really, but true. And no matter if I am here or not, they will be loved greatly.
Open hands Casey, open hands.
Haha, I don't have any kids, so I'm not sure that i can offer any motherly advice. I guess just love her the way that you love your other two!
ReplyDeleteBe as passionate as you are with your other kids...
ReplyDeleteI'd say share lots of photos on your blog. I can't wait to see Apple (such a cute name, by the way)!
ReplyDeleteI don't have kids, so I don't know if I can really offer much advice...but I would say when it comes to discipline: be rich in mercy and strong in justice. :)
ReplyDeleteI don't feel like I can give Casey any advice- she is such a wonderful momma to her babies already!! xo
ReplyDeleteShe seems like she is an awesome mom already and knows what is best for her kids.
ReplyDeleteI'm not yet a mother, but seeing her blog and reading this convinces me she just needs to keep doing what she's doing! Sounds like she's a great mom. :)
ReplyDeleteCherish every moment because it will go by so fast and take time for yourself.
ReplyDeleteI love Casey's blog. This post was beautiful...so heartfelt and touching. Entered the giveaway. :)
ReplyDeleteI don't have any kids so I don't have great motherly advice -BUT I know that Casey seems to love her kids more than anything and prayers for and with her kids, and I think those are the best things you can do!
ReplyDeleteI am not a mamma yet but if I could leave some advice I would say love your kids no matter what and make time to be with them. Just know that you are a blessing to your kids as much as they are a blessing to you! You were created for one another!
ReplyDeleteI have a beautiful 4 month baby girl and my advice is to sleep when the baby sleeps! I am sure you have heard it before but it is so true!
ReplyDeleteOh, that's a tough one! My best advice would be try to see the big picture :-)
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my advice: keep up the good work. she's already a great mother! ;)
ReplyDeletealways love her posts. Thank you for sharing this :)
ReplyDeleteMy advice would be that all babies are different. Each with their own personality. I'm sure she knows that with having two babies already, but sometimes it's shocking how different our kiddos can be!
ReplyDeleteThanks for hosting this giveaway!!